- College admissions are not controlled by some magical, divine force. No matter what they tell you about ending up where you’re “meant to be,” it’s really just people and numbers on the other side of the process.
- That said, most people don’t need a flawlessly-matched college to have a positive experience.
- Moving, distance, semi-independent living, urban navigation, and time management are not nearly as hard as people make them out to be.
- It’s one thing to hear older artists talk about how they don’t care about success or external validation and like the idea, but it’s another to genuinely feel this way about myself. I need some distance from the constant panic and uncertainty of young adulthood before I can get to that place, and that’s okay.
- There is more than one way to be social.
- You know how people slightly older than you seem to have it all figured out. They don’t.
- Everyone’s life looks way more exciting/perfect on Facebook.
- It’s totally okay to feel lots of different things simultaneously. Acknowledging this make every one-word answer to “How are you?” feel painfully dishonest.
- Everyone is shamefully ignorant about something. Google helps.
- Not all snow is adequate for snowman building.
- I don’t actually know what my parents are thinking.
- People have no idea what I’m thinking either. Explaining is important.
Have a great new year, people. Or an average one. No pressure.